I’m not trying to be a dick either. That’s what I included “directly affected”. I was not. I wore a El Paso strong wrist band for months. When I went out, I saw them at first, but near Christmas and after, nobody was wearing their shirts or wrist bands.
You can say this about any event. “It was just a car wreck or it was just drive by shooting”. The people and families that lost or whatever, will always claim it’s a big deal. That’s how it is.
Do yourself a favor, watch your local news and see if it’s mentioned. Then do the same in 2021 and see if it’s mentioned, then every year after that. It probably won’t be mentioned on your local broadcast today, and after every year passes, it’s just another day - to those it did not directly impact.